Nowadays, the mentality of girls and boys is changing. Girls want to get into relationships with bad boys instead of simple boys, and boys want to be with fashion-freak modern girls.
Later, if something goes wrong in their relationships, they blame all the boys or all the girls. But initially, they had the option of choosing a simple and good hearted boy or girl.
Yet, they do not like simple people. Girls prefer bad boys who smoke cigarettes, abuse, and drink alcohol. Similarly, boys want girls who also indulge in such habits, wear revealing dresses, and behave toxically.
Where has the understanding of girls and boys gone?
Society is changing. The golden time of our parents’ youth is slowly fading. Back then, originality and virtues were different.
People lived within maryada. For them, family was of utmost importance. Whatever they did, they ensured that their family’s name was not spoiled.
Boys today are also becoming emotionally less stable than before. They are too fond of girls. Nowadays, if someone is single, people assume they are not capable of finding a partner.
But the reality is - some people choose to remain single for peace, because they like living that way. And there is nothing wrong with that. In fact, it is better than being in a relationship that lasts only for a few days or months.
If you look at social media platforms like Instagram or YouTube, every day you’ll find stories about love, betrayal, and divorce. In 70 percent of these cases, the victim is the boy.
The girl cheats - not because something went wrong, but because she wants to be with another guy and ends up betraying her boyfriend or husband. When I see such cases, I wonder: how can a newly grown boy or girl trust anyone if incidents like these keep happening in society?
I am not saying every girl is guilty - but I am saying that most of them are. Even when they are in secure and successful relationships, many still look to hook up with other guys. But for what? Just because they get bored in the relationship. And that boredom ends up costing them heavily.
Generally, such cases were more common in Western countries, but now this trend of love betrayal and divorce is coming to India fast. In 90 percent of cases, it is the woman who initiates the divorce. (You can find related articles on Google.)
But there is also a positive side - many people are still happy together, managing their relationships and marriages along with other responsibilities.
And they are truly happy. It’s all about choice and understanding who you want to be with. There is no need to hurry. Think, observe, understand, feel the person, and then take the next step.
I am not blaming any gender. I am just pointing out that with time, people are becoming less emotionally stable in relationships. And that is not good.
You have to put in consistent efforts together to maintain a beautiful partnership in both relationships and marriage. Parents should also educate their children about these things from an early age.