Nowadays I see many girls believing very easily in the lies of boys. Those boys don’t really love, they just want to use feelings and take advantage.
This is not love, this is just playing with emotions. And that is why I feel like writing this, so girls understand and think before trusting. Because once your trust is broken, it is not easy to get back again.
See, it’s not about who likes you or shows interest in you. Anybody can like you for a short time. What really matters is who is brave enough to be with you intentionally, who chooses you every day, not only in words but in actions also.
A person who values you will not only say it, he will also prove it. If someone truly wants you, he will stay no matter what the situation is. That is the difference between a boy who plays and a man who loves.
If such a man comes in your life, then don’t be scared to live that life fully. Love without regret, because true connection is the only thing that makes real love.
And once a real bond is made, it is sacred. No matter what happens, it does not break easily. That bond gives you strength, peace and happiness in life. That is the love which is worth waiting for.
But remember one thing, society, people, even your friends, all will judge you if you take wrong steps or get fooled. They will always speak from their own perspective. That is why you need self control.
No matter how handsome or cool a boy looks, if you are strict with yourself then you will always walk on the right path. Don’t fall for looks, fall for character.
Protecting yourself is more important than running behind temporary attention.
I know controlling feelings at this age is very hard. Heart wants to believe quickly, it wants to feel loved, but you have to stay strong. Be a woman or man of honor.
If it comes to your goals, reject such distractions. Remember, if someone is stopping you from achieving your dreams, then that person is not right for you. A right partner will walk with you, not pull you down.
I always believe everything in life comes at the right time - money, fame, love or even your life partner. You don’t have to run behind it or beg for it. When the time is right, life itself will bring it to you. Till then, focus on becoming the best version of yourself.
So girls, value yourself. Don’t run behind sweet words. Look at actions, not only promises. Choose wisely, because your life is not a game. A real person will not just come, he will stay. And that is the love worth waiting for.