Sometimes the things you have are far superior to the things you don’t have. It’s a human tendency to idolize things we don’t have.
We start to think that if I can get this, I will be happy. I personally believe that happiness is not dependent on the things we want to achieve.
It’s just an illusion created by our mind. Whatever you have in your life now, always thank God and be happy and satisfied. Who knows - the things you want may eventually come to you with time.
But the need is just patience, satisfaction, and always being thankful for what you have, because some people don’t get what you have now.
Always question yourself before buying and wanting anything, and ask yourself - ”Do I truly need this?” If it is necessary, then you can buy it; otherwise, just drop your plan to buy that thing. Life is always full of surprises.
Eventually, when you wish for something with your heart and patience, you get those things by any means - like your parents may gift you that thing, or your partner can buy it for you, or your siblings can surprise you with that thing you wanted the most.
You don’t know what is written in the future and what you will get in the future, so stop worrying about that and focus on today - the things you have in your surroundings and the people you have around you.
Sometimes you don’t get what you want, but it does not mean that you don’t deserve it. It means that the thing you wanted doesn’t deserve you. Maybe it was not important for you.
We are humans - we can think about what is most important for us, but sometimes we make mistakes in understanding what we truly need because of our negligence and arrogance. But God knows all.
That’s why He plans the best for you and gives you the things which are good for you, and takes away those things which are not important -
whether it’s a person in your relationship, a thing, or an opportunity - because these things might hold you back from reaching your full potential and a brighter future.
With time, you will start realizing that the simpler you live, the more you understand the importance of always being happy in life.
But if you still want to achieve those things, then start your journey and work hard, and on the way of your journey, you will get those things one by one with time.