What makes the emotion get identified and recognized is communication. Communication is such an important aspect of life, which allows you to nurture and grow in your life with love and passion.
There creates a mist of unnecessary thoughts in your mind and your surrounding people if you don’t communicate. This mist will go darker and darker and swallow your connections and relationships.
Be a person who speaks and manages to do an authentic and real conversation, and remain silent for unnecessary chit-chat.
As I have read somewhere in Hinduism textbooks and also heard from Hindu saints and religious gurus, they suggest practicing quietness or silence (मौन). While talking unnecessarily, your body consumes lots of energy.
It’s like you are draining all of your necessary energy. That’s why it’s wiser to practice quietness. When you practice quietness, you will start noticing changes in yourself - you will become more calm and get ideas and reflect on your mistakes effectively. And speak when you think it is necessary while making a communication.
I personally believe communication is a key that can get you lots of opportunities in your life, whether it is related to a job or personal life. An effective communicator builds a strong personality among the crowd.
Have you seen such people who are able to convince people with their effective talking, while at the same time you were unable to convince? It shows how important the way you communicate is.
There are various types of communication, but the one we mostly use is verbal. This mode of communication really helps to understand the emotions of words and their relevance.
It’s different from writing emails or writing text messages because they can’t really reflect the emotions you feel. One can be sad and still show themselves as happy through online communication, which nowadays most people prefer, but this is actually not a good idea.
Simple, understandable text messages are okay with online communication, but on ground level, the clearance you get and to remove the mist of unnecessary thoughts, verbal is the most effective communication you have.
Have you wondered why people can’t yell or propose on message chat or email? Because it’s clear these types of feelings should be received by your partner with verbal communication only. It shows the weight and relevance of your talking, whether it is real or fake.
With communication, there is also an important thing, which is listening. If you want to be an effective communicator, then you have to be a great listener first. If you listen to your surrounding people seriously, then it will show that you really care, and they will also hear your every talking generously.
75 percent of the problem is solved when you do proper communication. That’s why: talk real, listen carefully, and practice quietness.