Do what your heart asks for but within the permission of your mind and your elders. Surely you have grown but you are zero as a experience.
In life there is a time when we stuck at the crossroad of goals, where we can’t find which way to go. Today through this article, if you are not able to find a way to reach to your goals or you are not able to find what to do? and you are confused then I think this method will seriously help you.
Every person has two to three things in their life which they want to pursue as a goal but they can’t come to a decision to select one. Recently I also went through these same issues, but with the help of my family and my inner self, I was able to think and make a clear goal which I will be pursuing for my longterm plan as earning.
There is a method called finding your true calling means finding your ikigai. Firstly you have to build an ikigai worksheet, you can also find it on google. You have to give points to all your goal which comes to your mind
on the scale of 1 to 10 on the basis of parameters Love it, Good at it, Paid for it and World needs it. After that you have to do total and then see which of your goal has highest point and the goal which get highest point is best for you.
Let’s understand it with my example. I have three things to do which I am thinking to pursue as a career in longterm: first writing, second full stack developer and third is setup personal business.
Now I have these three things in my mind then I will draw a box of 3 goals with parameters of 1. Love it, 2. Good at it, 3. Paid for it and 4. World needs it. You have to do brainstorming to give real points to your goals with your heart, no cheating. I am attaching this above photo as a reference.
And if you are still delusional, then ask your family members, your loved ones to help you. There are so many methods and things which can help you to grow in life but to know that all you have to start reading books.
“For modern humans, turning a single page of a book feels heavier than lifting a dumbbell.”
Books have all types of knowledge, secrets which can surely help you with. I came to know this trick after reading the book named Ikigai & Kaizen By Anthony Raymond. This is just one book and a few methods i told you there are more init which you can find after reading.