How can you think highly of yourself if you can’t accept changes in yourself? In life, there come several changes, whether they are related to behaviour, emotions, or surroundings.
We have to adapt to every change within ourselves with a positive mindset. But you have to keep a check on yourself - are the changes coming in you really necessary?
Do they contribute to making you a more beautiful version of yourself? If the answer is yes, and it seems hard but you think it is mandatory, then welcome this change in yourself with an open heart.
I don’t think anyone is afraid of change unless he is residing in his comfort zone. To accept changes, you have to come out of your comfort zone. Change brings a little hardness with it, which takes time to adapt to, and with time, day by day, you start becoming comfortable with your change.
This type of change can be anything - whether it is behavioral changes due to college or university gatherings, or having a new residing location far from your hometown due to your father’s job, or having emotional changes due to severe heartbreak.
Like plants accept their surroundings and get used to them, in the same way, you have to get used to your changes. Have you ever thought - what can take place without change? What then is more pleasing or suitable to universal nature? Can you take a hot bath unless the wood for the fire undergoes a change?
And can you be nourished unless the food undergoes a change? And can anything else that is useful be accomplished without accepting the change? Do you see then that for yourself also, to change is just the same and equally necessary for universal nature?
Anything happening to you right now is the result of a subtle change in yourself - whether the change is related to your job, your relationship, or your personal space. They say,
“If a person doesn’t try to accept changes in himself, then the situations and surroundings force him to change inadequately.”
I know some changes are really hard to accept, but with the support and beliefs of your loved ones, you can achieve that. I am ready to accept changes in myself. Are you?