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Just as in our Santana Dharma, Lord Shri Ram is considered to be the best among men i.e. Purushottam, in the same way Lord Shri Ram’s wife Maa Sita is considered to be the best or foremost among women.
Today’s girls are increasingly moving towards character or classlessness under the influence of Western culture. That’s why girls should know about their God or their virtues.
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Today I will tell you which divine qualities girls can take from Goddess Sita.
From Sita, girls can learn several important lessons:
1. Make Your Own Decisions: Sita demonstrated the importance of making personal decisions and fully embracing them. She showed courage by taking responsibility for her choices and their outcomes.
In Devdutt Pattanaik’s video, “3 Choices of Sita,” he explains how she made her own decisions, whether it was to accompany Ram into exile, cross the line (a story from Tulsidas Ramayan, not Valmiki), refuse Hanuman’s offer to rescue her, return to Ayodhya, or ultimately refuse to go back. She stood by her choices without complaint or regret, and she didn’t let anyone blame her for them.
2. Independence and Self-Reliance: Sita exemplified independence and self-reliance. As one of the earliest examples of a single mother, she raised her twin sons alone in the forest. She managed the household in the forest and took help when necessary but always contributed her share.
3. High Self-Worth: Sita possessed a strong sense of self-worth and didn’t seek external validation. This trait is closely connected to making and standing by her decisions. By being confident and secure in herself, she did not need others’ approval, allowing her to be unaffected by others’ opinions.
4. Balance in Life: Sita understood that people, emotions, and circumstances are part of life, not the entirety of it. Many young girls tend to make one emotion, thought, or person the center of their life, but Sita did not let any single aspect dominate her existence. Even when Ram abandoned her, she didn’t give up on life. She grieved but then focused on raising her children.
5. Self-Respect: Sita valued her self-respect above any relationship. She gave her loved ones a chance, but she knew that enduring repeated disrespect was unacceptable, especially when it affected more than just herself.
She underwent the Agni Pariksha once to prove her purity, but when Ram and the people of Ayodhya insulted her again, she refused to return, showing that her self-respect was paramount.
What are the qualities to learn from Mata Sita?
Today’s girls are increasingly moving towards character or classlessness under the influence of Western culture. That’s why girls should know about their God or their virtues. Read this article to know more.
What Mata Sita says on Self Respect?
Sita valued her self-respect above any relationship. She gave her loved ones a chance, but she knew that enduring repeated disrespect was unacceptable, especially when it affected more than just herself.
Why Mata Sita underwent Agni Pariksha?
She underwent the Agni Pariksha once to prove her purity, but when Ram and the people of Ayodhya insulted her again, she refused to return, showing that her self-respect was paramount.
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